The Smallest Gestures
That Keep Love Alive

1,000 tiny reaches. The micro-moments that separate couples who last from couples who drift.

86%

response rate to tiny reaches

Couples stay together

33%

response rate to tiny reaches

Divorced within 6 years

The difference isn't the big moments.
It's the small ones.

Based on research by Dr. John Gottman, The Gottman Institute

Quick Reference: 340 Tiny Reaches

The action list. Tap a category to explore, then scroll down for 870 vivid scenes with emotional context.

The 870 Scenes

Vivid micro-moments between real couples. Each one shows the scene, the emotional reach underneath, and what happens when a partner turns toward , or turns away.

The difference between couples who last and couples who drift isn't the big moments. It's the small ones, repeated a thousand times.

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